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i am chayalet bodeda. i came to israel 2 years ago to join the army.
i have already been 1 year in the army and it hasnt been what i have expected.
i have recently come across a problem that has given me no other option but to be "nefkedet". so i am asking if sometimes it is alright if there is no other option?

i am renting an apartment and i told my mefakdim a month in advance that i have to leave on the 1st of april as my contract is finished and i cant renew it.
in the meantime i filed paperwork for an apartment from aguda le maan hachayal and also for beit hachayal..
i was number 16 in line for beit hachayal in the merkaz. its important for me to stay in merkaz as this is where my friends are and they are all i have in israel

the date i had to leave my apartment was coming closer and noone was listening to my problem that soon i would have nowhere to go.
i tried to make appointments to talk to my katzin but he forgot about it twice!!
i wrote a letter to mefaked egged (aluf mishne) and i never got an answer back
i went to ktzinat tash, ktzinat shalishut..
everyone with the same answer... "we will see what we can do" but meantime i was running out of time

i know u are asking why i didnt ask for days off... well i had problems with my shmirot so it came to a point where i couldnt take off because i had so many shmirot.
i talked to naggadim in charge of shmirot too to ask if they could help me move them.. it was too late

this isnt the first time i have felt helpless in my base.. in rosh hashana i told them i dont have food and it took them 3 months to bring me food home..

so this time i wasnt willing to wait.. i went home..
i went home on the tuesday morning.. and noone saw me or spoke to me until wenesday morning.. more than 24 hours noone talked to me or saw me and they wrote in "doch 1" that i am "nimtzet" .. i have no idea why but i guess this is how much they trust me.. i have never been nefkedet or sarafti pkuda...

but i had shmira wednesday. so i guess this is why they called... i told them i was at home packing and "gone to find for myself a home as noone was willing to help me"
this is wat the nagad said.. "dont worry ... i will find u a home in jail.. i will personally make sure u have a bed in jail if u dont come back immediately"
i hung up

later i got a phonecall from my katzin (the one that kept forgetting that i needed to talk to him).. they had chosen his pkida to do the shmira instead of me.. the pkida does yomiot.. i do revushim.. so oi va voy that she should spend a night on base..
so he threatened me if i didnt come back by 4pm that i should never come back so that he wont see me
i tried to get a word out that i was gone to find myself a place to live..
but he wouldnt let me

i hung up.
i was in shock that his pkida who doesnt have any tash and her family is in israel... she needs to be home more than someone that needs to go find a home..
if this is the army i knew i would be volunteering for then i wouldn't have done it in the first place

im asking if someone knows what i can do now...
noone from my base had tried to call me since.. i am nefkedet now 3days... and noone has tried to persuade me to come back
i dont want to be arika.. i want to stay home till i find a new apartment and then come back to base..
but i know i will get punished... but do u think they will look into my situation??
and do u think that i could change bases after the treatment i get at my base?

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